Five Facts and Related Resources for Gifted Students and Their Parents

by Joy Corey

Parents around the world are scrambling to meet the educational needs of their children right now.  Online learning and home instruction are possibilities that many parents had never considered.  Today parents find themselves immersed in facilitating distance learning for their children while juggling job responsibilities and personal responsibilities from home. 

The parents of gifted students are no different, in fact they may find themselves at an even greater loss for ways to address the needs of their gifted student during this pandemic for several reasons. 

Fact #1: Gifted children learn differently than their age-mates. 

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Gifted kids process information more rapidly and remember details longer than their age-mates.  Not only do they complete work faster than the average student, they process new content and make connections between what they know and new content more quickly.  This fact may lead to a child who refuses online activities that they consider meaningless, rote, or too long and tedious.

Check out these links for learning activities that will motivate your student and keep them engaged and learning.

https://www.notsoformulaic.com/resources-gifted-kids/

https://presentlygifted.weebly.com/helpful-websites.html

https://oedb.org/ilibrarian/50-essential-links-for-the-parents-of-gifted-children/

http://www.thekidstory.com/websites-for-gifted-children/

https://www.hoagiesgifted.org/publishers.htm

MENSA offers a gaming experience for students who want to practice memory skills such as state capitals, synonyms, multiplication, division facts, etc.

 https://www.mensaforkids.org/play/games/



Fact #2: Gifted kids may be perfectionists. 

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Your gifted child may set very high, at times even unrealistic, expectations for herself.  Unrealistically high expectations plus a fear of failure may result in a child who won’t attempt to learn new skills or won’t try a task that requires intellectual struggle.  Developing grit, the willingness to take on a challenge at which you might fail and try again, is a trait that can be practiced and learned.  Finally, encouraging a growth mindset are aspects of learning that need to be encouraged and taught in order for gifted kids to reach their full potential. The following links will open up the world of self-awareness and a greater understanding of who we are as humans.

Psychology For Kids Volume 1 & 2 include fun resources to introduce students to understanding themselves and learn about what makes others tick. 

Angela Duckworth has done research on the importance of grit related to learning. Watch the Ted Talk. 

Take a Grit Survey here

Learn about Carol Dweck’s research on Mindsets in this Ted Talk.

Take a survey on your mindset. 

 

Fact #3:  Gifted students often exhibit greater intensity in how they experience and interact with the world. 

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This intensity can be expressed in both positive and negative ways.  Some children may express that intensity in emotions such as extreme nervousness or shyness in new situations.  For others that intensity manifests in fear, anxiety or an exaggerated sense of worry about social issues and current events.  Seek out opportunities for community service such as a volunteering at a food bank or community gardens.

https://ed.ted.com

 

Fact #4:  Gifted kids are creative thinkers, conceptual thinkers and good problem solvers. 

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Like anything else, creative thinking can and should be practiced.  Creativity includes 1) fluency, flexibility, and originality of thought, 2) being open to new experiences and ideas, 3) being curious, 4) being willing to take risks, and 5) being sensitive to aesthetic characteristics.  Creative/productive giftedness and talent is reflected in individuals who tend to be or have the potential to become producers (rather than consumers) of original knowledge, materials, or products and who employ thought processes that tend to be inductive, integrated, and problem oriented.  Invite your student to explore these websites.


https://www.lego.com/en-us/ms/default.aspx?site=portal

Check out the Try Engineering website.  It features a student game tab with engineering and science activities

Creativity Websites

 

Fact #5: Gifted kids may be passionate about a topic of interest.

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Encourage your student to pursue those interests at this time.  Connecting with an expert in a particular field of interest encourages students to “Think Like an Expert” and delve deeply into their interest. The following websites offer a multitude of content area learning experiences for exploring interests outside those regularly offered in school.

https://kids.nationalgeographic.com

https://spaceplace.nasa.gov

https://www.nasa.gov/stem/forstudents/k-4/index.html

https://www.nasa.gov/kidsclub/index.html

https://solarsystem.nasa.gov/kids/do-it-yourself/?page=0&per_page=40&order=created_at+desc&search=&category=139

https://www.cia.gov/kids-page

Exploring and developing resources that address your student’s unique needs may be what you need and want.  You know your child better than anyone.  As you tailor experiences for your student, offer as many real world, authentic experiences as you possibly can.  Problem-based learning is an instructional approach that introduces students to thinking through a scenario and developing an action plan for executing it.  Consider inviting your child to plan and execute family meal menus for several days based on nutritional guidelines from the food pyramid. Researching the food pyramid and determining nutritional guidelines, finding recipes, writing the grocery list, calculating costs, and preparing the meals are all part of real-world experiences that everyone needs for life and incorporates a variety of life skills.  The student must know or learn how research skills, fractions, decimals, writing, reading, and critical thinking.  If family members have dietary restrictions another element is added to the task.  And who knows, maybe you will discover a budding world class chef in the process.   If your child isn’t interested in cooking, find something they are interested in.  How about planning the next family vacation?  Maps, mileage, sites to visit along the way and related expenses, stops, lodging expenses, special clothing or shoes, are all rolled into the planning process and represent a learning experience for your child. Another approach to consider is starting with the budget and having the student determine where to go and what can be done for that amount of money.  Presenting the plan to the family would make the vacation plan truly authentic.

Use the time away from the routine of school as a gift to explore issues, subjects and topics that might not fall within the realm of the Common Core Standards but are of interest to your family and your child. 

Most importantly, enjoy your gifted child and have fun learning along with him.

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